Escaping Your Problems Won't Make Them Disappear
Friday, April 12, 2013
Everybody has his own problems;
some just choose to overlook them rather than to dwell on them, which is
partially good, not unless it goes way too far to be considered cowardly.
Overlooking your problems won’t make them nonexistent... it
will only prolong your agony, and delay the whole process of solving them.
Let me share an experience I've had
with the said topic. There was once a phase in my life wherein I was drowned
with multiple problems. The only reason they've gone from a few to multiple is
because I keep on procrastinating. I was gullible enough to believe that the
solutions to my problems will come knocking on my door, but they never do, and
I’m glad I've come to realize that they never will. I was depressed because I nobody
seems to care that I was slowly falling apart. I was sad because no one would
help me, no one gave a shit. But then I later on found out that the reason
nobody was helping me was because I wasn't even helping myself. I've sulked
about my problems instead of contributed in solving them. And come to think of
it, that made me more emotional. What a stupid, stupid thing to do.
So before I see other people do
what I did, I’m giving out an advice. If something is bothering you right now, pluck
up the courage, or rather, the confidence to solve it. Don’t let your problems
be big enough to eat you up. Always remember that you are bigger than your
problems, and so is God. Asking a little help from Him isn't a bad idea as long
as you help yourself in the process. But keep in mind that you create your
problems, and just like inventors who create their own robots, you have the
ability to dismantle them, only you know where the self-destruct button on your
robot is, be brave enough to use it.
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